She Builds Her House

A man does not cheat on his wife because she is ugly, homely, or because he got fat. A man is not unfaithful either because his wife spends more time with her children or because "nothing is the same anymore." The man who feels that nothing is the same in his marriage talks to his wife to seek to improve the marriage, especially if there are children involved since divorce is devastating for children. The man who is unfaithful is unfaithful because it excites him to be unfaithful. The adrenaline that man feels when he is unfaithful is so great that its effects can be compared to the same that cocaine produces.  Unfortunately, if your husband is unfaithful to you, he will not change. Consider yourself tied to a drug addict. We generalize by saying that only men are unfaithful, but also women tend to be. We blame our men for overworking or not being romantic, just for mentioning a couple of examples.  In both scenarios, a spouse can not blame third partie...

The persistence of some people trying to maintain an abusive and toxic relationship is something that continues to amaze us. That is why I would like to explain a little about this behavior so you can understand why these people never give up. 1. These people have a distorted view of reality as they justify their partner's toxic and harmful behavior based on the few good memories they treasure. This is how they justify bad behavior and abuse as a result of bad luck. For example: "Maybe she or he had a bad day at work." "Maybe she or he is tired." "It is because his or her traumas from the past.", in short, the account is infinite. 2. These people believe that no matter how much physical or emotional abuse they may receive, eventually, the toxic person(the abuser) will change. It is very sad to know that people who become attached to a toxic relationship hold in their hearts the hope that if they work hard they will eventually make the abuser c...

Children need to talk It is important for children to talk to their parents no matter their age. There will be a time when your son or daughter will need to talk about important issues, but since their parents never encouraged the habit of conversation, this helpless human being will have to discuss this important issue with his or her friends. You will lose that privilege of knowing what is going on in your child's life and you will also miss the opportunity to help him or her. So, let's start today. . . Here are some healthy activities that even exhausted parents can implement to keep the habit of good conversation with their children: 1. Dinner with the family with televisions and cell phones turned off. 2. Play board games on weekends. (Monopoly, chess, etc.) 3. Cooking together. 4. Building things together (puzzles, small cars, houses with pallets, etc.) 5. Adopting a pet. 6. Cultivating mutual interests. For example; sewing, crafts, painting, etc. Remember t...

Unlike boys, girls have innate observation skills, including the ability to recognize tones in their voices. For example, when you breastfeed a girl and she bites you, you will immediately make an expression of pain. The girl will then hardly repeat it again. On the other hand, the little boy will be less able to recognize his mother's displeasure and will ignore it. By understanding this, it is important to emphasize that girls are more susceptible to their environment and more observant. That is why in times of financial stress or marital conflict the most affected will always be the girls. Girls always observe even those small steps that we believe as parents that they did not observe. Just take heed. . . References: Dobson, J., Dr. (2010). Bringing up girls (Building a family legacy). IL: Tyndale momentum.

According to the psychological theory of Functionalism, learning new things helps us adapt to the various situations we face. In a nutshell: Learning new things helps us to be able to face various traumatic situations throughout our lives. In this difficult situation that we face in the world regarding COVID-19, it is very common that the emotional health of many people is being affected, and to avoid falling into depression or anxiety; I recommend using this theory in your lives. Invest your time reading an educational book or, make use of free internet platforms where you will find cooking courses, sewing, design, or carpentry workshops, to mention some examples. Learning new things will help you keep your mind busy😉 It's not about saying, "Stay home." It's about saying, "Do what you said you wanted to do if you had time."

According to Coon & Mitterer (2010), Most child molesters are married and a third of them are parents. In cases of pedophilia, the offender is a close friend or relative of the child (Abel Wiegel & Osborn, 2007.) Most sexual abusers are passive and religious. They consume child pornography and as children were also victims of or witnesses to sexual abuse. According to studies practiced by Elliot, Browne, & Kilcoyne(1995), these are some tactics used by child molesters: 1. Most of them act alone. 2. Most abuse takes place in the abuser's home. 3. Many abusers gain access to the child through child care. 4. Children frequently receive toys, candy, games, or prizes from the abuser. 5. The abuser tries to hook the child into his sexual trap through open sex talks or by showing explicit images of it. 6. The abuser then uses threats, force, and anger to gain complicity with the child and thus keep him silent and subdued. Coon, D., & Mitterer, J.O. (2016). ...

The good news for today is that your children won't need many toys or designer clothes to build their self-esteem. Self-esteem begins with the security of having a loving family. It is important to emphasize that self-esteem, specifically in girls, depends on the relationship that they have with their father rather than on the relationship that they maintain with their mother. Always tell your children how beautiful or cute they look, hug them and highlight the physical features of them that you like the most. Increase your children's self-esteem by spending a little quality of time with them (remember that quality is always better than the amount of time). Always tell them that you love them and that you are proud to be their mother. If they feel that they are loved at home and that mom and dad are proud of them, no one will take away their self-esteem even when the turbulent times of adolescence come.