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When a guy pressures you

If I don't give him what he asks, he will leave me. Could it be true? Many are the women who fall into this trap; but let me tell you that if you give in to what you do not want to give in, your partner will use you to satisfy his sexual needs over and over again until he will completely lose sexual interest in you and then he is going to leave you. According to Coon & Mitterer (2010), "There is the so-called Coolidge effect, in which a male (speaking of animals) is allowed to mate as many times as he wants with a female. After a time, the male will lose interest in this female but when providing him with a new female, he will feel the deep desire to mate over and over again until he is bored." (p. 343). The Coolidge effect is also applied to humans. That is why there are many women that we see these days only used. No matter how we can satisfy his sexual needs, the man that pressures will end up bored and will immediately seek a new love that does not make hi...