She Builds Her House

A man does not cheat on his wife because she is ugly, homely, or because he got fat. A man is not unfaithful either because his wife spends more time with her children or because "nothing is the same anymore." The man who feels that nothing is the same in his marriage talks to his wife to seek to improve the marriage, especially if there are children involved since divorce is devastating for children. The man who is unfaithful is unfaithful because it excites him to be unfaithful. The adrenaline that man feels when he is unfaithful is so great that its effects can be compared to the same that cocaine produces.  Unfortunately, if your husband is unfaithful to you, he will not change. Consider yourself tied to a drug addict. We generalize by saying that only men are unfaithful, but also women tend to be. We blame our men for overworking or not being romantic, just for mentioning a couple of examples.  In both scenarios, a spouse can not blame third partie...