When a guy pressures you

If I don't give him what he asks, he will leave me. Could it be true?

Many are the women who fall into this trap; but let me tell you that if you give in to what you do not want to give in, your partner will use you to satisfy his sexual needs over and over again until he will completely lose sexual interest in you and then he is going to leave you.

According to Coon & Mitterer (2010), "There is the so-called Coolidge effect, in which a male (speaking of animals) is allowed to mate as many times as he wants with a female. After a time, the male will lose interest in this female but when providing him with a new female, he will feel the deep desire to mate over and over again until he is bored." (p. 343).

The Coolidge effect is also applied to humans. That is why there are many women that we see these days only used. No matter how we can satisfy his sexual needs, the man that pressures will end up bored and will immediately seek a new love that does not make him bored. The Coolidge effect can also be applied in marriages when a man makes repeated threats of divorcing a woman if she does not engage in sexual acts that she does not wish to practice. Once the woman agrees, the individual will enjoy it many times and then he will get bored.

Have you ever wondered why some of these men are still "in love" with a woman from the past? The answer is simple: that woman did not give him what he asked for.

We can conclude that eventually, the man who becomes sexually bored with the woman who is by his side will get bored with his new sexual partner or lover.

Let's not be afraid to say NO

References:
Coon, D., & Mitterer, J.O. (2016). Introduction to psychology: Gateways to mind and behavior (14th ed.). Belmont, CA: Cengage Learning.

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